January 6, 2021

A Year in Review

Highlights From 2020
Swimming pool fun with my little girl

Mark Ballantyne family reunion

Cutest decked out babies on July 4th

He turned 2!!!

Sharing a meal in a hotel

Visiting their sisters grave. 

He's crazy and I love it!

Life with 2 babies and a 7 year old

Camping shinanigans
Sequoia Nation Park 

wearing masks


My little squishy girl has grown up so much!
The best Easter pic I could get
Camping with 2 babies
Probably my fave pic of 2020

He likes to play in the strangest things

LOVE THIS

They were so little

Only the 500th pic with 2 babies


He is the cutest little thing!

Wow! I don’t know if 2020 went by fast or if it went by super slow. It definitely had it’s moments! It was a very strange year full of cancelations, a new normal, and the start of a journey. Although it was hard for a lot of people, I must say I would rather relive last year than relive past ones. All in all, I think I learned a TON! 

Cousin Time in Washington

To start, we ended the year perfectly! With a 15 hour drive through the night to Washington state and being surrounded by family! Our Christmas was filled with laughter and building a snowman outside (we California folk have warm blood so the 30 degree weather was one for staying inside for me). We stayed up till crazy hours of night, played games, and created memories. It couldn't have been more perfect! Here’s a little review of what each of us did this year.

Carter

Carter's freckles melt my heart!

Carter got lunch from school! He was pretty excited!

My social butterfly had a rough time after schools shut down. He missed his friends terribly, but we made home school fun and made the best of it! He was able to choose most of the topics he learned about while working on his reading and math skills. I think his favorite part was watching videos about neat creatures and wonders of nature.


Carter's first day of in person school

He was disappointed 2nd grade started via Zoom, but at the end of November he finally got to meet his teacher in the flesh! He loved meeting his classmates and playing imaginary football during recess/break/snack time. I think with only 2 babies at home to play with, we got into the bad habit of watching YouTube and playing video games.

Twin day at school. They decided to be quadruplets

For Carter’s extra curriculars (there wasn’t much to choose from) he chose to play flag football and start piano lessons. This little boy is incredible with how fast he learns and how awesome he can play a song even though he hasn’t practiced it. He has a heart of gold and loves to be a helper at home. What would I do with out him?

My silly boy <3

Daxton

My favorite Island boy
Love Love Love

This little fireball has been a blessing to our family ever since that evening on August 26, 2018 when I met him. It has been so fun to see him grow, gain a crazy personality, and start talking! He is the sweetest little boy and will give everyone he meets kisses! 

Their relationship is so sweet!

Sometimes he can be quiet and shy, but when you see his true crazy side… you know you’re alright in his book. Although he likes to push his little sister’s buttons, he really loves that little girl and misses her when they are apart. I think his very favorite thing to do is wake her up. He asks me to do it every day! If he could only learn to be a good eater, I would have no complaints. He’s a lot like his mama and LOVES all the sweet things in life!

Sweet sweet boy

Callie

My sweet baby girl 

Oh could there be a cuter little girl out there? She melts my heart every second of every day. That sweet little face gets her a lot of things, and I think she is secretly the favorite in our house. I love that mom is her favorite, and I love that she learned how to give kisses! Even though she acts like she is shy, she is almost as crazy as her big little brother (minus the mischievousness).


Cutest Little girl EVER!!!
She's the BEST eater!

In 2020 Callie turned one, learned how to walk, and learned how to say quite a few words. Her little voice lights up my heart, and I love it when she says, “uh oh.” She is an awesome eater just like her biggest brother and is always happy to try something new. I wish she could stay this little FOREVER!

This beautiful little girl turned 1!

Jason

LOVE him!

As always, Jason has won husband and father of the year! He has pursued many of his dreams including buying a brand-new house and landscaping a back yard. He has loved his job with Wonderful Citrus, and even received a premotion. He amazes me with how much he thinks about others and how awesome he is at playing with our kids.  I often think that I don’t deserve him, but I’m so happy he chose me!

A daddy and his little girl

He continues to help with a 22q Family Foundation and coaching adults how to beef up resumes, practice for interviews, and be a listening ear for concerned parents. He’s been a huge support with all the dreams I have, and even puts up with some of them. He’s incredible and I am so excited that we celebrated 10 years of being married! I am so happy he’s mine forever!

The boys

Me

Longest I've had my hair in a VERY LONG time!

The only half I was able to do

My goal of running 5 half marathons for my little angel girls came to an abrupt halt after the 1st one in February in memory of Shanna. I was struggling mentally and emotionally after the world shut down and I was with my kids 24/7. I needed something that made me Clarissa, and so I found a passion for health coaching. I became a health coach and hope to continue on the journey of helping people. I still teach a little on the side and try to keep a clean house. My favorite thing though, is playing with my kids and making them laugh! My little family is everything to me, and so I’ve learned that I need to take care of myself so I can take care of the ones I love most.

The start of a health coaching adventure

There is always a silver lining in the hard that we go through in life. It may not seem like it in the moment, but as I look back on the year we’ve had… it’s been pretty awesome! I hope we all can remember the blessings that came from a year of shut down and hard! Happy 2021 everyone!

Selfie with my favorite little girl on earth!

Visiting family in Colorado

More Colorado fun!
Love California weather and riding bikes with my little crew!
Jack-o-latern fun!
My Favorite selfie with my crazy boy!

November 23, 2020

Light in the Darkness

My little crew❤

Could life be any crazier?! October flew by, and now it's November bringing cold weather, Thanksgiving, and excitement to celebrate Christmas, to have joy amongst the crazy. This year has certainly been one to remember! With the craziness of COVID, the reconstruction of our backyard (keep reading for details), the awesomeness health coaching has brought to my life, and the realization of so many important truths. It's weird how hard times can remind us just how blessed we are. We can do hard things! Here's how we've kept sane through all of it!


Our last day in Colorado. 

Recently we just got back from an epic trip to Colorado! We were able to visit some family we absolutely LOVE and have missed so much. It was a grand adventure taking 3 kiddos on a flight in the middle of a pandemic, at the crack of darkness. They actually did great on the flight there, except for a little motion sickness and tears, we made it in one piece.

Callie and Daxton checking out the chickens


Did I mention there was a pig too?


All the "big" kids. Callie and Koda were being held. 



I was so happy that these two finally met!


Our last day in Colorado. 



In all our years in Utah, we never saw Arches National Park, and so we took the fantastic opportunity and spent our Sunday enjoying one of many of God’s Creations. Callie and Dax LOVED having the freedom of walking around! It was pretty awesome when it tuckered them out too.


Exploring Arches National Park

 

I sure love these kids!

Carter by balance rock with his buddy!

I don’t know if any of you have visited the incredibly beautiful state of Colorado, but there is SO MUCH to do and see! Our trip consisted of cards games, hiking, experiencing life in the middle of nowhere, and the breath-taking views of a beautiful world. We ate delicious food, stayed up late, and soaked in time with family. I’m so thankful for wonderful trips like these, where we create memories with people we cherish. Thank Tressa and Kyle for putting up with us and our family shenanigans. We love you! 

She loved sliding down the slide at the park!



Carter


Love this little boy!

He can hardly wait to get back to the classroom for face to face learning. Virtual learning has been hard for this energetic second grader. He has told me every day how much he just wants to talk and interact with his class mates in person. Poor kid only has a 2-year-old brother and an 18-month-old sister to play with when he's not in class. We have awesome new neighbors that always want to play and have fun with him, but it just isn't the same as playing with kids your own age.


Carter started football with 2 of his buddies, and his daddy is the assistant coach. It's fun to see him get so excited for something. He also started taking piano lessons, and I often think about how I should have never quit playing. I'm excited for him to have things in his life that keep him excited!

Daxton

Is this not the cutest smile you've ever seen?!

This crazy little boy has my heart. He is super sweet at times and has a feisty side to him. He's very mischievous, because his curiosity can't be turned off. We've been working with a speech therapist to get him talking more, and it has been so fun to see the leaps and bounds he is making. Even though he turns our house upside down, I thank my Heavenly Father every day for him! He is a miracle we prayed for, and continually count our blessing that he is ours for eternity!

This little boy... He has my heart!


Callie

Oh my heart ❤ 

This sweet, sassy girl, is our little princess. She has everyone wrapped around precious finger. She just keeps growing up and making the world the place she wants it to be. Her vocabulary consists of mama. hi, hey, yeah, tickle, and every word in baby gibberish you can think of. I love this phase with my sweet little girl, but every time she goes down for bed… I just want her to wake up the same age she is. She’s growing out of her wanting mama all the time stage, and has started wanting her daddy. Although I love that she loves her daddy, I just want her to keep wanting me all the time.

I was so sad she didn't have a dress, but she is still so beautiful!

This little girl LOVES aniimals


Jason

These boys <3

This man has been working hard on all things backyard. In the span of a week, he put in sprinklers, sod, rubber mulch, and just yesterday finished a walkway to our pool. He has blown me away with not only all of his work, but the fact that he spends time with his kids after work, and works long into the night after they have gone down. It could be because I’ve complained a whole lot in the past, but honestly, I think it is just because he knows how hard I work during the day. He’s a keeper and I love him with all of my heart!

Bird's eye view of our backyard coming together! 

This is the amazing work of a hard working man!


Coach Clarissa

I kind of miss my long hair...

Well, I think this is the first time I have actually written down my title as “Coach Clarissa,” but it is something that I have really enjoyed. Becoming a health and wellness coach was never something I ever saw myself being. Health, fitness, nutrition, all of these things have always been a curiosity of my, but with all the stuff that’s out there…I quickly turned my head and did my own thing. The program I am a coach for, encompasses all the areas of health, and what’s amazing, is that it educates you on the way you need to fuel your body, mind, and spirit. I love the fact that I get to help people on their journey in this life. So many wonderful, incredible, individuals, has stretched out their hands for me to grasp on to through times when I really needed it. I feel like this crazy Corona pandemic has really hit some people hard, and they are realizing just how precious life is. We are only given one life to live, why not make it the best life EVER?!

 

Taking family photos and capturing precious moments

Besides health and wellness coaching, I have been loving on my kids like no one’s business! I have never had the energy to roll around on the floor with them and take silly pictures with them, I’ve always been quick to react to their messes, annoyed by their curious questions, and exhausted from the things that I thought were inconveniences, I have been that mom that doesn’t always see how wonderful her children are. Well now, we run around the house playing tag, we eat messy things, we have a house that is very lived in, and I feel like I have so much more to say about my day to Jason than, “I am so glad you are home! Here’s your children, have fun!” I am actually excited for Carter to be on Thanksgiving break, so we can play instead of fight over homework assignments. I feel like I am finally becoming the mom I always wanted to be! The one who loves on her children fiercely and has so many memories to share with them. Sure, I care about the cleanliness of my house, but only after sweet spirits are dreaming. I hope you have all found something to love, and something to be grateful for during this crazy year! Look past the darkness and into the light that this hard time has shined on your life! Thanks for listening to my babbling, and I truly hope these words find you with peace and hope in your heart! Happy Thanksgiving week!!

Nothing like snapchat with your baby!